This is David here: when a writer you admire as much as Jim Fallows calls your new memoir an instant classic, you put the quote everywhere. On the cover. In excited emails to your publisher. And also, it turns out, in the title of this post.
It’s Only Drowning: A True Story of Learning to Surf and the Search for Common Ground is out tomorrow, and Jim was kind enough to talk with me about the book - and so much more - as it nears release.
A transcript of our conversation, edited for length and clarity, is below, or you can watch the whole thing in the video player.
And don’t forget to pick up a copy of It’s Only Drowning from Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or an independent bookseller via bookshop.org.
Full Transcript: Jim Fallows Interviews David Litt
JIM
My name’s Jim Fallows. We’ll talk about former Obama speechwriter David Litt’s recent and excellent book, It’s Only Drowning. David, welcome.
DAVID
Thank you for having me.
JIM
So, just to start out telling people who have not yet read the book — why surfing? Why this story? After writing books about working in politics with your books Thanks, Obama, and Democracy in One Book Or Less, why write about learning to surf?
DAVID
This book is a departure from my last few in some ways.
Originally, I thought, “Okay, this is a fun story about falling off surfboards,” and that’s still true, but the more time I spent in the water and working on the book, I realized this story is really about me and my brother-in-law Matt. He’s my wife’s younger brother, who is Joe Rogan’s biggest fan, and we’re completely different. We became unlikely friends through this shared hobby, surfing.
The split between us is not just personal, but also reflects what’s defining our country. And the friendship shows that, in a moment that often feels hopeless, we can still have relationships across cultural and political divides.
JIM
I want to talk about the surfing to begin with. *Holds up first page of book with two photos of surfers* Can you describe the two photos and the captions on them?
DAVID
If you thought the cool-looking surfer in a barrel inside a wave on the top is Matt, you would be right. And if you thought the out-of-shape surfer falling off a surfboard and flailing his arms aimlessly is me, you would also be right.
JIM
What did you learn about the larger process of doing something that’s embarrassing? What was that like, and why did you decide that it was worth it?
DAVID
For me, that fear of embarrassment was very powerful, and it kept me from doing a lot of things in life. I started as a speechwriter for President Obama when I was twenty-four, which was wildly lucky. I had an accomplishment in my 20s that was pretty rare. In my 30s, however, that sense of achievement held me back. When I tried new things, I knew it was never going to be — at least on my resume — as interesting or advanced.
Learning to surf was a discipline in becoming comfortable with embarrassment in public and with being bad at something.
Those two things — learning to say, “I’m going to be bad” and “I’m going to do it again anyway” — are muscles that are absolutely worth strengthening.
JIM
What were the particular things that were hardest to master about surfing?
DAVID
I’ll answer your question in two ways, one physical and the other more emotional. Physically, the hardest thing about surfing was everything. In a way I had not anticipated. There are muscles that are involved in surfing that I had taken for granted and were suddenly being used. Learning to surf would have been a lot easier when I was younger.
The biggest emotional thing for me was learning how to handle the overwhelming sense of fear — being in the ocean and having a wave about to clobber you. During my second lesson ever, I asked the instructor, “I’ve noticed this interesting phenomenon where every so often the wave looming up behind me is about to break and feels like it will kill me. Anything I should do?” I thought my instructor, Katie, would tell me how to avoid the situation. “Oh!” she said. “That’s the flower of fear!”
What she meant was that instead of running away from fear or overcoming fear, for surfers there’s this idea of embracing fear.
Without that fear, you’re not in the right spot. The wave is telling you to paddle out. I’ve come to believe this not just with surfing but in other moments when courage is called for. Fear doesn’t always mean you should run from it or overcome it. Sometimes you’re already in the right spot.
JIM
One of the themes of the book is David discovering David. The other is David and Matt, your brother-in-law, a veteran surfer with different political views than you. How did he come to respect your surfing accomplishments by the end of this journey?
DAVID
I think it’s fair to say, out of the water, I am much closer to being “the establishment” than Matt is. I’m a Yale-educated writer who uses two computer monitors for work. Matt is an electrician who is covered in tattoos and drives a pick-up truck to work. In the water, it was switched. Matt is the establishment. He absolutely had the unwritten surf law to reject me, but he never did.
In addition to a lot of practice, Matt just has a lot of natural talent. In a strange way, I think he thinks to himself, “This person is so obviously unqualified for this, and yet they insist on trying. And there’s something about that I respect.”
JIM
There’s been a recent big piece in The New York Times opinion section. I view it as chapter four million of the ‘guy in a diner’ saga.
I’ve gotten a little tired of accounts saying we need to be more empathetic to the sense of lost pride among one particular group, white men. Tell me how you distinguish class and economics in this book from being episode four million and two in the ‘guy in a diner’ saga.
DAVID
Not being reductive was important to me. I think it’s unfair to those reading and also unfair to the people in the diner. It reduces people to just their demographic characteristics.
What I learned through three years surfing with Matt — including a year not in the book — is that we’re more interesting than our demographics would suggest. For example, he reads more than I do, which is surprising to readers who assume “Matt must not read.” There’s a moment in the book where we discover that we both love Taylor Swift. That was a point of connection.
To make another point, I’d go back to the Obama campaign. I was a field organizer. My first job out of college took me to Wooster, Ohio, a college town and dairy county. We’d talk to people who said, “Obama is a Muslim terrorist, so I’m never going to vote for him.” What we were taught as organizers was you don’t have to validate people’s incorrect facts but you do have to treat people’s feelings as valid.
When you got to the bottom of it, their concern was almost always a policy one. They would say, “I feel like white people have treated black people so badly that if Obama becomes president, he’s going to want revenge.” I would say, “I’m a white person. If I felt that the president was going to try to take revenge on me, I absolutely wouldn’t support that.” I think treating people’s feelings as real is different from treating their worldview as correct. I don’t think resentment justifies everything, but I do understand how people could feel like politicians don’t care about them. And President Trump panders to those resentments.
[A quick reminder: It’s Only Drowning comes out tomorrow, and you can get a copy from Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or an independent bookseller via bookshop.org.]
JIM
That’s well reasoned, and I’d add that my wife Deb and I wrote a book called Our Towns. We talked to people across the country, especially in smaller towns, and found most people on most topics can have a reasonable discussion, including on disagreements. The cancer of the moment is that national politics has reduced that capacity and inflamed people.
Going back to the door-knocking anecdote and white people who thought Obama would take revenge on them after centuries — why do you think in the most recent presidential election, a larger than expected number of blacks and Latinos and immigrants, all of whom might expect revenge from Trump, would have still voted for him?
DAVID
That’s a good question. I feel like you’re trying to get me in trouble, which makes it fun. I do have some insight because these days, Matt and I know each other well enough where I can just ask him stuff. I’ll give you an anecdote I think explains a lot of this. In December of 2024, Matt and I went to Waco, Texas, and I talked about how I was surprised as a Democrat that all of those Latino voters voted for Trump. In the end, I thought they’d swing back to Democrat.
Matt said, “Oh, I could have told you what’s going on.” Matt is an electrician with lots of Hispanic people on his job site. “They love Trump. Not him but 100% the economics. They think he’s going to put money in their pockets.” I asked him more recently, “What do they think now?” He said, “I don’t know, they’re gone.” They just haven’t been showing up, which reminds him of the pandemic. There’s a lot of fear, which is changing people’s behavior in ways that are totally understandable.
I feel like what I ended up learning was about this split. People stopped, to some extent, voting along racial lines, and started voting along the lines of gender, blue-collar vs. white-collar, other divisions that Trump was able to exploit.
JIM
Let’s talk about speechwriting. Relatively recently, Gavin Newsom gave a sort of “Go to Hell” speech in response to Trump. What impressions did you have about it?
DAVID
I didn’t see the whole thing, I saw internet clips. That was my first impression. Most people now see clips, where in the past, people would read a speech in the newspaper or watch it on television.
It was interesting that Newsom’s speech was a return to formal speaking at a moment when casual is in, with podcasts and Joe Rogan. This whole idea of being sloppy and casual and authentic. Newsom seemed authentic, but it was a very written speech, which I hadn’t realized was so rare until I saw it.
How would you answer that question?
JIM
I was in California at the time, and I saw it in real time. It was only six-and-a-half minutes long. It was keeping in the way of FDR the morning after Pearl Harbor or Ronald Reagan after the Challenger explosion — addresses in times of stress — because Newsome didn’t know what was going to happen in Los Angeles. I thought it was formal in an intentionally informal way. If you look at the actual text he spoke from, most of the sentences were just one sentence long. Not even sentences, just phrases. I thought it did the right job of sounding stern and respectful but also defiant.
Tell me what you think when you hear our current president speak.
DAVID
Most recently, what struck me was that during the military parade during his birthday, Trump spoke off the teleprompter. He hates being shackled, so this was his version of retreat, thinking “I need to be careful and not start doing the weave. I can’t turn this parade into a series of political attacks.” It’s a moment for all the Democrats to see that Trump and MAGA don’t have it all figured out either.
JIM
I think Trump is absolutely terrible on the teleprompter. He can barely read. He only comes alive when he can make his speech a rally speech, which is why his State of the Union and latest Inaugural Address were four times longer than they should have been because he was just riffing.
Am I being too harsh in judging his teleprompter skills? How do you view his speaking style?
DAVID
It’s funny that what immediately comes to mind was the moment I saw my brother-in-law Matt in a tuxedo for the first time at a wedding. He looked miserable. Someone was telling him what to wear, and he was frustrated by it.
Trump, when he’s on the teleprompter, looks like somebody forced to wear a suit and tie against their will. He just seems to resent it so much. It recently occurred to me,“Wait a second. For this man who had this famously controlling and overbearing father, the only thing that seems to give him joy in life is the feeling that no one can control him.” I think that’s part of the prompter. If he chose to get good at the prompter, it would demonstrate that he was willing to do it. So by being bad at speaking off a prompter, I think in a strange way, he thinks of it as an act of defiance.
JIM
Tell us about some Democrats — particular people, messages, or approaches — that you have found interesting.
DAVID
We’re at a moment where a lot of flowers are blooming. What we’re seeing is new styles of communicating. For example, I think Pete Buttigieg has been fantastic and cerebral, which is very rare. For most people who think in public, it can be hard to connect with big groups of voters.
Then you have people like Jasmine Crockett, who I think are winning the internet and really engaging in disrespectability politics. People who just say, “I don’t give a crap about the powerful,” and that’s really appealing. They read as authentic, so that kind of disrespectability politics is in.
It’s an interesting moment. We don’t have an obvious front-runner or party leader, so lots of different people are trying their own thing.
JIM
On the other extreme, are there any Democratic messages now that have that fingernails on blackboard effect on you, either in their tone or the approach they’re taking?
DAVID
The one I would highlight is ‘TACO,’ which stands for “Trump Always Chickens Out.” It came up after he announced tariffs and then backed out somewhat. I think it misses the extent to which Trump chickening out is actually a political superpower for him. I think it’s appealing to voters who are not hardcore MAGA. So saying ‘TACO’ is not helping us, and this is a moment when winning is existentially important.
JIM
Existentialism brings me to my last discussion topic. This is the most trying moment for the American experiment during my lifetime. Even if 1968 was more violent — two historic, catastrophic assassinations, a president feeling as if he had to resign — there wasn’t the same sense of fragility of institutions that many people correctly feel right now. What would you tell younger people about the balance between hope and determination and fear and pessimism?
DAVID
One idea that is fundamentally American, even if we haven’t always lived up to it, is that in this country, We, the People should by and large get what we want. We should decide what happens next. That remains true even after six months of intense assault on our democracy.
I think Trump thought we’d be well on our way to being Hungary or Turkey with a de facto strong man. But mad kings are not what we do. That has surprised people who thought America would go down without a fight or that the fight was over. So the first thing I would say is that this is still a country where we believe that what we want matters.
The other thing I’d say is that we still want to figure out how to build something together. We don’t want to barely be speaking to family during Thanksgiving. Thinking we used to be friends with people, but we now can’t, because of a certain issue. The vast majority of us want something better than the divided and bitter world Stephen Miller wants. That’s what makes me hopeful.
When you’re writing a book, you’re deciding what question you’ll be asked a million times by everyone you meet. With President Obama, everyone would share their experience meeting or being near him. This time around, people tell me about a family member they have trouble speaking with because of politics. No one ever says, “And I’m glad about it.” Everyone wants this to pass, which is an important and overlooked piece. To quote my former boss, everyone wants to, “figure out how to disagree without being disagreeable.” It’s harder than it’s ever been, but it’s still something that we want.
JIM
What is a point or that you wished I’d given you the chance to mention that you haven’t?
DAVID
There’s a lot qualitative polling and qualitative focus groups on our political divides. This story is the sample size of one, the smallest you can get. I think by reading It’s Only Drowning, you’ll learn about these divides, how they were exploited politically and shaped our country in a way you wouldn’t otherwise know from a poll or focus group.
JIM
That is good to note. As someone who has read It’s Only Drowning and is encouraging other people to read it, that is one of the many things to learn. So, David Litt, thank you for writing this book, and we will see you on the trail.
It’s Only Drowning: A True Story of Learning to Surf and the Search for Common Ground, comes out tomorrow. You can buy it today from Amazon, Barnes & Noble, or an independent bookseller via bookshop.org.
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